Giving as a good medicine

http://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/5_ways_giving_is_good_for_you

Read this article about 5 ways that giving is good for you. They are true that it makes you feel good to be giving and makes you happy.

In my local context, people are kind of skeptical to people who act too kind. They will feel that there must be a catch to your kindness. I suppose it has got something to do with the way the environment is headed. In a very competitive environment where people are trying to climb the ladder to success, while at the same time, stopping others who may be of threat to you; so when people are kind to you, you will sort of feel like they might have an ulterior motive.

An ex-colleague buddy called me last week, updated me about the happenings since I had left. She was full of expletives for the person who had taken over from me and really, just by listening, it could have made my blood boil. After handing over properly and left, that new person got into some trouble and what would be more convenient than to blame the person who handed over for not doing it properly. Well, if that was once off, I probably won't have minded. I heard this year, she was at it again. Kind of a stupid person to dare to bring me up again after leaving for half a year where she should have done things her way. It's good that other colleagues had given her a good dressing down and had since stopped trying to push the blame to me.

That was just the tip of the iceberg as my ex-colleague buddy continued to rant about that person for 1 hour. IMAO, this person won't last another year before breaking bond. Even my little spy didn't like that new person.

Oops, got carried away ranting.

It's tough working with people like this and still be kind to them, but I feel there are many others who deserve kindness. Being freelance, it is much more flexible and you can choose your target audience of your kindness. Therefore, I'm a much happier person now at the moment. No more wearing a mask to work. Spending time trying out new recipes. Having friends and relatives trying them out. I don't earn as much as before and that's fine by me.